So go ahead and put in your RSVP for one, and see it as a great chance to meet and mingle. I don’t think you should rush to book your next mission trip in hopes of finding love, but the truth is, opportunities to serve alongside others is a great way to interact with and get to know people, especially those of the opposite sex.
People who are regularly attending church week-in and week-out are going to show up in your life time and time again. Some of my nearest and dearest friendships have come out of these intimate settings of people, sharing God, life, and usually food (bonus! It will require you to get vulnerable, but why not take a step and get involved into a smaller group?
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How Being Churchified And Church Going Limited My Dating Pool And Marriage Prospects. I didn’t grow up in the church so, I was excited to learn about the prosperity movement, God’s special people that were all one in Jesus Christ, how God would grant all of my desires if I lived right according to the bible and sowed enough financial seed, etc. With all of those wonderful promises, I was sure that God would have a husband for me as a reward for living a clean Christian life (as best as I could) at some point before my child-bearing years ended.