Source: Keep in mind that these are all generalities, only based on my personal experiences.
As such, perhaps not everything I say in the following paragraphs will adhere to every person, Chinese or foreign.
this is actually more common in china then in america.
(lying and misleading women just to have sex with them) about 10 of these women date foreigners or have dated foreign men. a few guys told my friends that they had a gf in their home country and were only looking for a relationship while in china.
One of the biggest differences you’ll encounter is that parental pressure and lofty expectations play a much larger role in Chinese dating than they do in many Western countries.
You shouldn’t have to feel bad if you are two consenting adults who understand the situation, whatever it may be.
The thing is though, that many times people don’tproperly understand the situation here and aren’t honest with each other, and that’s where hurt feelings and stereotypes start flowing into the discussion.
4) Future Concerns If you’ve gotten past the initial, difficult stages of establishing your stability in a Chinese-foreign relationship, the conversation will inevitably led to the future, which, depending on your personality, will either relieve you or terrify you.
If things are going well with your Chinese partner and you can really see a legitimate future together, there will come a day when you have to make a decision about where to live and raise a family.