That dating them will be more convenient and they’ll understand you better. It’s inevitably up to you to decide if the cons outweigh the pros, and vice versa. When you spend time with your significant other, slow down.Maybe it feels like you’re always driving back and forth from somewhere to spend time with them, but maybe those times when they’re in the car with you are nicer than you imagine.If the girl gets attached in the process, it just means the breakup will be messier. Yes, the initial thrill of a new relationship is exciting, but each time that excitement grows less and less because you grow accustomed to it.Even when a man does get emotionally invested, it usually occurs more slowly and to a lesser degree. If the countless e-mails I get from readers, or my female friends' stories and my own experience are any indication, you know what I am talking about. You gradually throw away the innocence that allows for deep emotional attachment to a single partner, in exchange for a series of brief, shallower attachments that cause you to raise your defenses against something permanent.
You can see them every day but still somehow feel like you never see them at all.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. But the ridiculousness of my situation was embarrassingly obvious in the very instant he asked the question.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. I knew that - in light of my certainty - my relationship with her was pointless.
They’ll wonder why you didn’t find someone who “did better” with their life.
Your significant other will wonder this too, and fear that one day you’ll find someone on your campus.