Oxytocin is also the hormone that is released when women give birth to a baby, which causes the intense bond between mother and child.The problem with oxytocin is that it doesn't discriminate.You have a signature dating mistake that is all yours and has your name written all over it.All your friends and family know your relationships by this mistake.Moreover, unfortunately, the rise of the dating app and swiping has made dating culture "disposable," meaning you can always swipe again and just find another one.It is extremely unhealthy to approach relationships this way (and can even trickle into your professional life and ruin your professional network), and then, when you finally do decide you are ready, you will not know what is involved in truly dating and how to have a relationship.Make sure that if you start dating a 'bad boy,' you don't waste valuable time when you realize he's not in it for the long haul.
It could be that you always date guys who cheat, guys who don't commit, guys who are workaholics or whatever. You are going to repeat this behavior over and over again unless you recognize it.
Work on yourself and your own life, and wait for the person who adds to the happiness you already feel.
When you are both in that place, you will not only be ready for a relationship, but it will be more likely to succeed.
We believe we need to have crazy sparks with someone on a first date, so we dismiss awesome people because we don't become obsessed with them right away.
We're acutely aware of all the options out there, so we're tempted to just look for someone else when we get bored of whomever we've been seeing.