Good spelling shows that you are thoughtful and considered.Comment on something specific to the profile to stop the message from feeling too copied and pasted. Send a message that shows me you're interested in me as a person, not just looks. Refrain from being too blatant, but compliment something specific, i.e.They don't want to feel like an item on a supermarket shelf that you might simply pass by because it's not on your list.Describe yourself as a person - how you like to spend your time, what you love to do. Good spelling implies you're intelligent but more importantly it shows you've taken care and effort writing your profile.I think it also shows that they're actually thinking about what women may want to hear and putting a real effort into their profile.Women who are more forward, using phrases like dinner, drinks or lunch in the first message get 73 per cent more replies, while men should play it cooler.A hastily-written page full of abbreviations suggests you're not taking it seriously, or that it's something you flung up online while you were bored.That suggests you won't take dating seriously either.
Again, as explained by Drs Goodwin and Jamison in their authoritative text: “Although it is likely that symptoms of untreated mania are disruptive to forming or sustaining intimate relationships, this hypothesis is not supported empirically.” Divorcing a Bipolar Spouse It seems incontestable that there is causal relationship between bipolar and divorce, and that bipolar creates serious challenges within a marriage.In the Coryell study, 45% of bipolar patients ended up divorced compared to 18% in the control group.In the Drieling study, 12% of bipolar patients ended up divorced compared to 6% of the controls. Workaholism – 6% It is easy to see where bipolar disorder, particularly where there is untreated mania, fits into this picture.So what is it that makes it so hard to sustain marriage with a bipolar spouse? If adultery is the main cause of divorce, then bipolar disorder with its elevated rates of infidelity, is very likely to lead many couples to divorce: Bipolar hypersexuality and divorce A bipolar marriage may often seem very chaotic.A UK study by management consultants Grant Thornton, estimated the main causes of divorce in 2004, based on data from divorce lawyers: 1. We don’t yet know how much of this due to the real time challenges of coping with manic and depressive episodes, and what proportion may be attributable to the poor relationship skills that come from growing up in a bipolar family.