Getting from match to message is the easy part, but getting from message to meet-up takes some real leg work.
Take Bumble, for example, where women have to initiate the conversation. I think there’s a tendency to get into a bit of a “frenzy” mindset when you log on to an app—to swipe and swipe and swipe, garner a bunch of matches, message them all immediately, and then forget about it for for three days.
I was immediately skeptical, having heard lots of not-so-great tales from others about the service, but she quickly added that a seemingly decent guy had contacted her and wanted to take her out on a date. I know a lot of women who seek dating advice from the wrong people—bitter gal-pals, friends who haven’t had successful relationships, and even parents who can be less than helpful when trying to navigate the online dating world.
Rather than trying to set up a profile on every single app out there, choose one or two to make your mark on.
Even though everyone says never to put a group photo on a dating app, I want to show that I come from a solid foundation.
And it's my family, not a group of girls at a bachelorette party.
So ladies, my question for you is this: How have you made your experience with dating apps lead to real connections rather than just hook ups?
I was talking with some girlfriends one day and one told me that she gets men messaging her on a certain app for quick hookups. I use the exact same app and had never once had a man inquire about a sexual rendezvous.