How exactly do you go from dating someone casually to having a serious relationship with them? What qualities made you want to get serious with your date? Being self-aware of how others perceive you is a huge advantage in dating and relationships. To make yourself a better partner, think about your past relationships.Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.If you emotionally vomit on someone and spill your whole life story during the first three dates, where’s the fun in that?
Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.
If you drift apart, you know they were never going to commit and you saved yourself time, trouble, and heart ache.
Q: My date says it’s just casual, but acts like it’s serious?
Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.
If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.