Although she didn't realize it, she did this to feel better about herself.The truth is we can never earn another person's love. We must simply understand that who we truly are is entirely loveable. Many reject their partners as protection individuals against being rejected themselves.It wouldn't be necessary to have to actually ask for what they wanted.This is one of the most serious mistakes people make in relationships.
They start to feel as though they're not loveable, that destiny is against them or that they will always be a failure in love. You simple have not yet been taught important truths about relationships. First dates that last longer than a few hours are awkward. Rather than sit quietly in the dark for 2 hours listening to each other breathe? Why don’t we go somewhere where we can, I dunno, TALK and get to know one another? The bottom line is these may not feel they deserve a relationship, they feel they can't hold onto a partner because they haven't accepted themselves."If he/she really loved me, they'd know what I needed and give it to me." Many believe that if their partners really loved them, they would read their minds.