Read on to discover the 21 shocking mistakes men make when texting girls, so you can stop burning numbers and start getting dates! Text her immediately after getting her number – within fifteen minutes after you meet her is good.
And stick around, because even if you’ve made a bunch of these mistakes already, I’ll give you the solutions to turn everything back around. Even better, text her when you’re right in front of her.
There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Take This 2 Minute Quiz and see if you still have a chance to get her texting back and on a date. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that.
Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.
Remember, girls look for what you’re sub communicating in your texts, not what you actually say.
Always try to keep your texts as short and sweet as possible.
She’ll appreciate those a lot more 🙂 “I had a gr8 time last nite. Read your texts before you send them and don’t use slang. Note: LOL and WTF are ok to a point, but try to avoid these in the first few texts so you can test to see if she likes using them. If she sends you a long message, reply with a long one back. No girl wants to look in the mirror and see a witch staring back, so don’t give her a bad reflection by sending 6 texts back if she only sends 3, or reply to a 20 character sentence with a 200 character text monologue.
Remember, hot girls receive dozens of texts a week from guys just like you. If you haven’t sparked enough emotion, she’ll more than likely turn you down.
That’s why the first few texts you text a girl are critical in pumping her emotion to the point that when you suggest a date she’ll be gagging for it.
Everything leading up to the meet up should demonstrate value, build her comfort levels and excitement about meeting you.
Ok, so you’ve been down the gym, had a damn good workout and think she’d appreciate a ripped photo of you with your shirt off. If you haven’t built up enough attraction yet, topless photos will scare her off.