You will be able to tell by her voice when the time is right. We'll meet for coffe because I'm most attractive when I'm hyper, jittery, and got the runs!You are just skipping a step in the comfort chain of online dating I think. ": When you meet someone in real life, you are able to gauge if you are attracted to them or not, you can gauge if they are creepy, slick, etc.Depending on what you've arranged for the date, you might be stuck with them for a couple of hours or more.The concept of the meet and greet is to eliminate all of that.It also stops the situation of people who exchange messages with no intention of every taking anything into the real world.If there is no interest in person, you've only lost half an hour of your life.I don't agree with that, I want to hear someones voice and have a small conversation and then ask to meet. Everyone can find 30 minutes for someone they think they are interested in.
The worst that can happen is that you'll spend a little more money, but at the end of the day, even if things don't work out, you'll have went home with a full stomach of sweets. There is nothing worse, then arranging a date for a full evening, showing up, and the person isn't who they claimed to be or their photos are 20 years old or they are just not very interesting to you.Ask for her number, call her (don't text her) and ask her out in that phone conversation.Some people will tell you to not give out your number and set up the meet online, giving your number afterwards.Soooo it’s best to stick with Sunday through Thursday for calls. Most guys ask a girl out by asking if she’d like to meet up on a certain day. I mean if the conversation was going well she’ll say yes.