Think about the process of what a girl goes through on the road to becoming a mail order bride and you will realize that very few truly submissive wallflowers are going to have the guts to go down that path.Regardless of where a foreign lady grew up, it takes confidence and intelligence for a woman to turn away from men in her own country and decide instead try to marry a man from another part of the world.Yes, there are Russian ladies who have never been online and Chinese girls whose family raised her to honor and always obey her husband.However, today those foreign girls still probably know who Brad Pitt is and have some idea of current fashion and even more important know that women in the US and the European Union lead vastly different lives than they live.Russian ladies that grew up in the last dreary days of the crumbling Soviet Union had vastly different life experience than young Russian bride who grew up with the internet in a more or less free society.So, the old stereotype of an Eastern European lady as a pushy, materialistic, green card bride, which was always a gross exaggeration of the worst Russian ladies, is much less true today.If you bring the same set of beliefs to this new relationship that you used in your earlier failed relationships the end result is almost certainly going to be the same.Take some time to read up on successful relationships.
If there is a growing mutual attraction between you and a particular younger woman, regardless of a large age difference, that is probably a good thing.
Not that older women do not have many charms, but the pursuit of younger women by older men is prevelant in every major cultural group around the world.
However, before you begin the process of pursuing a young foreign bride you need to ask yourself some important questions.
And recognize that she is going to grow and develop throughout your relationship, in fact, whether you are twenty-five or eighty-five, so will you.
So, be flexible about the dynamics of your relationship, because they will change.